I'm coming home in less than 24 hours, so last post before I leave. I thought I'd catch you up on last weekend. Saturday I thought I was going to go shopping, but it ended up that Juan Carlos's brother came to visit. It was nice to meet some of his family. They had three kids who were a bit older. The oldest girl, 16, wanted to practice her English with me. It was sweet. We had a nice day together, but by night I was exhausted.
Sunday we got up and went to breakfast at a old palace that a Japanese princess had built a long time ago. They had a fabulous brunch with lots of great foods to eat. And after this they dropped me off in the center of town so I could do a bit of shopping. After I went through the market I headed toward the Zocalo because I heard some music playing there. Apparently the pasteleria, El Globo, was putting on a summer concert thing. One of the bands, the one I saw, is pretty big. They are named Motel. The music was pretty good.
This guy at the concert started talking to me. He fixes computers and I think he was trying to get some business because I told him I lived in Cuernavaca. He was nice, but strange people always make me nervous, especially older men, however it was nice to practice my spanish a bit. I went to the super and bought some things for the kids and then went home.
The week went well, except I think I had lost my patience just itching to go home. I can't wait, I'm so excited.
Talk to you all on the other side!
Jenn
Ya Me Voy...
Estress
Have you ever been somewhere and someone walks in the room and suddenly you can just feel all positive energy leave? That's what it was like 10 minutes ago when Nadine walked in the house from her three day business trip. It makes me feel sick to just hear that tone of voice for 10 minutes straight. I can't imagine how these children are supposed to grow up without heart problems. They are scared of moving for their parents yelling at them, although they are never punished. Which may be worse that they are threatened but nothing is ever followed through on.
I need to leave this place. I'm not a stressed person but it's hard not to let Nadine's stress saturate my emotions. AHHHHH! The poor children have been waiting and waiting for their mom to come home and she is sitting in the kitchen talking Juan Carlos's ear off about something that is wrong in the world of fruit. Leave it alone for 10 minutes and hug your kids. It pisses me off. It also pisses me off that I had two great days with the kdis and now tomorrow we're all going to feel the stress again because we can't talk or move without being told to shush.
I worry for the children and that's the one thing making it hard to leave. I can't wait to go home and see everyone and be out of this environment, but I was just getting the kids to learn things and now I have to go. And who knows what the new au pair will be like. Apparently they have a lot of applications. One was a 30 year old woman, who I think the kids could probably benefit from, but Nadine thinks there must be something wrong with someone who doesn't want to do real work. However, she thinks there is something wrong with most people. I like positive people, even if I'm not really one of them, I'd like to be.
And apparently now there's nothing to eat. But there's plenty. There's always plenty. She just wants to eat the same thing every day. If she got a little creative she could actually use her food. I hate that I've been criticized for not cooking new things, when really she would eat the same thing every single day if I wasn't here.
Playa Del Carmen Part 2
Ok, so I got a little mixed up. Holbox actually happened on Thursday. So what really happened on Wednesday was that we woke up and said goodbye to Louise's sister who had to go home to England. I can't really remember what we did for the morning, maybe the beach or something. In the afternoon we went to Aktun Chen. It was a place in the jungle that had some animals to look at as well as a cave you can go in and see the cenote. It was a beautiful cave. Many of the stalagtites and stalagmites were pure white. And it was a lot cooler inside the cave than outside which made for a nice relief from the heat. I have a lot of wonderful pictures from inside the cave, as well as of the snakes and tigrillos (I have no clue what they are called in English. They are like little leopards and look just like a house-cat however the guide said that they are 10 times as aggressive.)
After the cave we went to a small beach to swim in the ocean. It's amazing how warm the water is, and although it's nice not to have to have that shock when you enter the water, it is a feeling I kind of miss. I also miss the depth of the Atlantic and the waves that take you up so high you can't stand. I plan on going down the shore on Tuesday of my week at home and I look forward to that.
On Thursday was Holbox (see Playa Part 1).
Friday Juan Carlos left early in the morning. On Friday afternoon Amelia, Nadine, the kids and I walked the Quinta, the famous shopping street with no car traffic. We looked in a lot of store but no one bought anything. Then when we reached the Cozumel Ferry we took a dip in the ocean. The kids were soaking wet and we didn't have a change of clothes so we went to the store and bought some cute little outfits. It was good because someone had forgotten to pack more than one pair of shorts for Louis (this someone was not me).
Saturday we went to Crococun. It's a park in the Jungle with crocodiles and other animals. They teach you about the animals and let you hold them. I held a crocodile and a snake. I also fed some deer. The kids loved the deer and I said they should come to my house in the winter because they are all over the yard. Nadine said if O'Bama wins they will come to America to visit. So everyone better vote O'Bama so that Louis and Clemence can come visit me! After the crocodile park I took some time to go shopping. It was a nice little break from the kids and Nadine. I also got some free tequila. Dad would have been proud, I tried everything they gave me, although I don't really remember what they were. I also got offered like 2 dates and a plane ticket back to the Caribbean. At least it all made me smile before I had to go back, or maybe it was the tequila.
Sunday we went to Tulum, a pyramid. It was very beautiful but I found it hard to look at with the kids to worry about. We went down some stairs to the ocean, which I don't understand because Louis doesn't especially like the water and the waves were big and there were a lot of people. But I'm going to stop complaining now before I bore everyone.
Monday we did absolutely nothing all day and by 5 I was aobut to tear my hair out. I wanted to go for a walk and I thought that Nadine wascoming so I said something to the ids. Apparently she wasn't planning on it, but we all went out and it was good to get some fresh air, although it rained. I guess I should have mentioned the hurricane was coming in and it rained all day keeping us inside. But we made it through the storm and I'm glad that that was our last, not first day there.
Tuesday we woke up at 4 in the morning and went to the airport. I thought that after having to take all our bags on the plane on the ride there because we were to late to check in that we would have tried to be a little earlier, but no. So we left at like 5 something and got to the car rental place, but no one was there. I am suspicious that maybe they had been there but we were 40 minutes after she had told them and they left. So, we went to the airport and left the car there. We got through the line ,got our tickets and everything was ok. I'm just hoping that if they decide they want to take me to the airport Saturday they don't hold me up, or I'm taxing it.
More to come about this and last week, but this is the end of Playa Del Carmen.
Jenn
Playa Del Carmen Part 1
I'm still here. I'm sorry it's been so long but with both kids out of school I am very busy. I wake up early to try and get a little time for myself. Sometimes it works, but lately Louis has not been napping, meaning he goes to bed at like 7 o'clock and wakes up at 8 in the morning. This severely limits my time to myself, because by the end of the day I just want to go to my room and sleep (the end usually comes near 10). So here's what's been happening.
We went to Playa del Carmen. I had a great time, although sometimes it was difficult to be with them all ALL the time. However, over this trip I really started to leave behind my fear and laziness and try and speak Spanish more. It's paid off. I had some great conversations with Amelia about the family and the children. I was afraid to say something about the family in the beginning, of course, because she's been with them so long. But I'm glad someone else sees how lax they are with the children. I also met Louise, the old au pair, and she was lovely, as was her sister. It was nice to have someone my age around.
We flew in on Sunday and after picking up the car we arrived at the hotel, the Mayan Suites, which was huge. After this we headed to the beach but the mosquitos were really nasty so we returned to the room and went to bed. Monday we went to see Louise and her sister, Laura, and all of us went to Xcaret, a large park where they have animals to see and many things to do. Clemence and Louis swam with the dolphins. Well, Louis mostly cried with them until finally Nadine took him out of the water. He said that they were scary because they were ugly and very big. Then we walked around and looked at the various animal. The turtles were my favorite because they had little baby ones in some of the pools. We ate a lunch together on a rock and then we seperated so that Louis could nap and with Juan Carlos and the rest of us went to swim in the cenote. Clemence threw a fit and wouldn't go in the water, so Laura, Amelia and I went in. We had a nice relaxing swim and found out at the end that Clemence had calmed down and the rest of them had come in a few yards behind us. At night we went to the show they have which shows the history of Mexico and gives a taste of the cultures in different parts of Mexico now. It was very nice, although I always have reservations about these types of things and how they teach the general population as well as tourists, especially foreign tourists, about the culture. However, I feel it was well done and included a lot of the things I have found fascinating while learning about Mexico, such as how the churches were all placed in previous religious places of the indians, the Mayan ball game, etc.
Tuesday we drove to Merida early in the morning. Nadine met with a client while we all stayed in the car a little down the road and ate a little something. After the meeting we picked up Nadine and went to Merida center. We looked at some murals that were painted about the history of Mexico. It was interesting because it was a tourist attraction but was placed in the functioning offices of the state. We did a little window shopping and then found a place to eat. Nadine asked our horse cab driver to take us to a authentic Yucatan place to eat, but the place eh left us was horribly noisy and looked like a cafeteria, so we left and ate in a little Italian restaurant with great food. Amelia wanted a new dress, so we went in search of one and saw some very pretty but expensive things. We also went looking for a dress for Nadine for the wedding she is attending, and though she found nothing I bought a beautiful 100% cotton shirt.
We had a great day in Merida and were all tired so we headed to the car. WE got lost on our way out of town, and as we were coming to a place that we might not be lost in anymore we got in an accident. Besides the fact that it was an accident and we had to keep the kids quiet and in the car for 2 hours while the police and Juan Carlos and the driver of the other car tried to figure out things, it was very interesting. I say that because I got to learn a little about the Mexicans as well as about their police, who really are as corrupt as everyone thinks. We didn't get back until 3 o'clock in the morning, though, so Juan Carlos did not take his flight home that Wednesday and instead stayed until Friday morning.
Wednesday we went to Holbox. Holbox is the picture perfect Caribbean island. It has white sand beaches and little cabanas on the beach. The hotelitos are precious and the water is that perfect shade of Caribbean blue. We took a small boat to the island, stopping on the way to view an island where some birds nested. We were far enough away from the birds for me to enjoy the scene. Then we arrived on the island and took a taxi to the beach on the other side of the island. The taxis, and all transport there, are golf carts. It's cute. When we got ot the beach the taxi let us off and we walked to this little hotel, Casa de las Tortugas. WE sat on the porch and had guacamole and chips and a few beers. I really could get too used to that kind of thing. I think I might move tehre and open a hotel and never leave again. It's so beautiful and relaxed. It's such a small island it doesn't have a bank.
You'd think an island so small would not get so much tourism, and I'm sure compared to most places it doesn't have too much, but it is an attraction because it is a take off place to view the whale sharks. These are sharks with the shape and size of a whale. However, we did not get to see them, or swim with them, because they are far off shore and it takes 6 hours in a boat, something that could not be done or enjoyed with Louis and Clemence at this age. You also have to leave much earlier in the morning to beat the heat and the sun. I still had a great time. Clemence and I rode horses on the beach and we went to a beautiful spot. We returned to the hotel and took a dip in the ocean in front of their beach chairs. The hotel staff was nice enough to let us use their showers and bathrooms. Eventually, we got dressed, returned to the boat and left paradise.
This is a test...
All people should have to au pair before they are allowed to declare that they want a child. I have never wanted one, and now I know I was right. I love kids, and it's great teaching them and spending time with them, but I don't think I could do this every day for 18 years+. I just couldn't. However, it is very rewarding and I can understand why someone would. Maybe if I have a husband who wants to take a large share in the care taking...but this would be the only way. There would still be no babies, too much work.
Anyway, the kids have been on vacation. It is a lot of work to have them all day and I have hardly any time to myself so I have found myself going to bed late and getting up early and wondering what all the coffee I am drinking is doing to me. Mostly they have been good, but there are some moments I want to tear out my hair. I am so glad we are going to Playa Del Carmen in less than a week. Then I have a week and a half left with them and then I'm home.
I had a great time with Mom and Dad. I loved getting to see some more of Mexico. Mexico City had a lot more to offer than I would have thought. We went to the largest Anthropology museum in the world, and it was just of Mexico! It was amazing how many things they have. But if you see enough artifacts things start to stick in your brain...at least for me, so I was able to see some patterns and things. One day there was a gay pride parade, causing us to have a fabulous journey through the subway with a mother/daughter traveling in Mexico together. We had some great dinners, one at La Casa de las sirenas, which is made of old pyramid stones, and one at Fonda "El Refugio," which was fabulous. the setting and everything was great and the guy was very nice and even spoke some Spanish with me.
After I went back for two days to help with the kids I got to meet Mom and Dad in Puebla. It is a beautiful city, much larger than Cuernavaca, but with many different things. Here they were albe to show me some things that their guide had taught them the day before and then the second day we went Chalula. It was cool to see a huge pyramid covered with trees and all. And there was a church sitting on the top. The view from there was good too. I also had some awesome tuna steak for dinner.
Then we all came to Cuernavaca together. I showed them around and we had some great dinners together and such. The hotel we stayed in was beautiful. Nadine got us a discount, so we got to stay in a very niec boutique hotel for less. Friday we went to Xochicalco. I LOVED it! IT was the most beautiful ruins I've seen here so far. They had reconstructed one of the pyramids and it had most of it's carvings still intact. It was awesome, and the guide showed us some of the stories that were etched on it. It was very nice and in all I had a great time with them.
It's made getting back into things pretty hard. I miss being on vacation and being with my family. And it's been raining the last two days straight. Mexico is crying for Mom and Dad. But I'll get back into the swing of things soon, and then I go home. I can't believe it's almost over. I really will miss the kids, but I'm excited to start something new.
Jenn
Ready for a little vacation...
So, I figured I should write. Tomorrow I'm off to Mexico City to meet with Mom and Dad ! I'm excited to get to see them and to get to see a little more of Mexico. I have Friday through Monday morning with them and then I come back Mon and Tuesday and go to Puebla to be with them again until Sunday. I can't wait to write about it.
I have been very busy this past week. This weekend Nadine didn't feel well, so I had to spend the weekend with the family. I was happy to help, though I had thought about going to the center. However, I feel like since I am trying hard to be with the family and help them with things they are more willing to go places with me. It is nice because I feel a little bit more like family now, and I also feel that if I had the time I would stay for longer...but now there are so many things possibly filling up my time after Mexico that it is not really a possibility.
The kids are both doing well with their English. It is really awesome when they speak a word or a whole sentence without prompting. Clemence has gotten very good at the basic English things and both of them can name countless things when asked. It's neat that I taught them that, and it's also really cool watching the connections they make with the other languages they speak. Often, they structure sentences how you would in Spanish (I don't know about French), but it shows that they have a connection with the Spanish words and the English words.
The kids are also better behaved now. At least with me. I think often I can get them to do things with no more than a no or a change in tone. It's very rewarding, but often I think that the parents see this and bo even more into their way of doing things. It makes me sad to see the lack of patience they have, but I think it has helped me learn a lot about how I wish to relate to people and life.
Jenn
PS. Dr. Phil is a great guilty pleasure...specially when it's about teen pregnancy. It's actually really sad. Some 14 year old girl wants to be pregnant so bad she goes around lying about it. I hope Dr. Phil gets her counseling.
I don't know when I got so perky...
...but I was watching HI-5 today with Clémence thinking how overly energetic and annoying these people are, but that the kids love the dramatic expressions and songs about everything, and then I realized that is me now. I am now one of these: 
people. I never thought I could be so even-tempered. Sure I'm still sarcastic with the kids, and talk to them in a realistic manner most of the time. But I sing, A LOT. Like I know I did before, but now I'm going back into all those girl scout songs and camp songs that I only remember like half of. It's funny how you turn on yourself. But really, it's not so bad being perky. It beats sad and gloomy, or yelling and angry or something like that.
So here's what I think about the word 'no,' in case you wanted to know.
No, in essence is a very stupid word. It is useful, probably my most used word daily with the children, but there are problems with it. Problem #1: No is short. When someone is not listening well, one no simply will not get them to listen. So you end up sounding like you are singing some little no song, no no no no no no no. It's tiring, and definitely repetitive. Problem #2: There are different strengths of the word no. This mostly leads to Problem #3: Sometimes you start out meaning no, but something convinces you (or wears you down) into meaning yes. This is a problem because then kids learn that no isn't always no, and this makes them try to hard to turn a no to a yes. Maybe this is also the reason people mostly disregard when people say no and they want a yes. The last problem, Problem #4: When a kid says no, if you want it to be yes, it is always yes. Kids don't get to say no and mean it. This is a large problem.
Tengo un lugar
So today Clemence calls me from the living room out onto the patio:
Mira, Jennifer, mira. El vaso de las bubuhas quedo un corazon. It's magic.
This means: Look, Jennifer, look. The cup with the bubbles left a heart. It's magic. And it was:
I mean it's perfect right.
Today was a good, no strike that, great day. I talked with Mom for like 2 hours. I got a late start on lunch and wasn't really ready on time, but no one said anything. I made chicken and some kind of salsa, which they ate, but I'm not sure liked. No one threw up. I guess that's a good sign.
After lunch I convinced Clemence to make cookies with me. We made sugar cookies with blueberries. It was the first thing I ut in the oven that came out tasting good, really good. I ate like 10 million.
The rest of the day was really nothing special, but it was good. I know that.
This weekend was also good, although I had a huge stomach ache thing the whole time. We went to the center on Saturday morning after swimming and looked around. There was a book fair at the Jardin Borda. Then we ate pizza at this little Italian place that has a GREAT view of the cathedral. I may just have to convince Mom and Dad to have some pizza there just to see the view.
Sunday we went to this market that was just starting up. It was a beautiful drive through a part of Cuernavaca I had never seen. There are so many beautiful houses and viveros (greenhouses). It was a gorgeous drive and less filled with the falling down buildings and garbage filled streets than most drives through the heavier populated center.
The market was not much to speak of. There was not much there. Granted it is just starting, but it is in an out of the way spot. It's supposed to be a place for organic growers to sell their things, but there was very little you couldn't get in another market. Nadine thinks it will fail because of the location and it does not seem to have very good organization. It's sad really. She was telling me how many growers here could be certified organic and sell their products on a large market if only some would come and organize a way to get it out there. They just don't have the money or knowledge to develop it into what it could be.
Sunday afternoon we had a nice lunch together at the house and then I went and had a little swim in the pool by myself. I love having a pool so close, and having the weather be nice enough to go in it.
Speaking of weather it's been gorgeous. The rains have made everything green and made everything clearer. The haze has lifter so you can see the mountains so clearly. I am in love with the mountains here. I will miss them. they surround the whole city and you can see them in the skyline wherever you look. It's beautiful.
Jenn
PS more pictures to come in some near future.
Warning: This may be a little sappy
Well as sappy as I get anyway. So I was really sick yesterday and that made me a little nostalgic and homesick. I really just wanted to curl up in mom's bed and sleep all day. But I did my duties the best I could. Today I'm much better, thanks for asking, but I just wanted to post these thoughts.
I know I have said this before, but this experience has made me appreciate my family a lot more, and on the scale of appreciating families I was already pretty up there. You see, my family is cool. I'm not just talking about Mom, Dad, Sister here. I have had two grandmothers live in my house, one who :) is still there. Aunt Mel also lived with us for a time, and my family, though they live hours away, has always made the effort to be there for holidays, important occasions, and at times, just because we haven't seen each other in a while. In my opinion, this is very rare for a typical American family, and is becoming increasingly rare around the world, especially in westernized cultures.
We have been to visit the family once while I've been here in Cuernavaca. The funny thing is, they complain about going to Mexico City (an hour drive with maybe an hour or two of traffic) when we often drove 6 hours to get to New Hampshire (ok, usually the NH people drove the hours), but the family from Mexico City won't even come down for birthday parties in Cuernavaca. It's just a very different philosophy, one that I think many people have, but I am not accustomed to.
Also, I have so many people in my life I call family or consider family who are not blood related. The many other mothers I have and the amount of people who care about me and how I am is overwhelming seeing how little people these kids are surrounded with. They have their parents and Amelia and the occasional au pair, and that's it. In a way I guess it works, but it's just so sad to mae because I know how great it can be to have all those other people there for you. You feel safe, because there will always be someone there.
So I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for making family important in our lives. If you don't realize how special that is, then at least it is there for you to take for granted. But really, our family is special. And I didn't even need to leave to know that, I just had to leave to know I'd miss it so much. But then I also miss my piano terribly...
Love,
Jenn
Cabello Oscuro
So I bought this shampoo because it was the cheapest. Translated the bottle says:
Blacker-More Brilliant-Silkier
Base of Cactus and Walnut
Better Formula
The Specialist in Dark Hair
So we have dark hair shampoo at home, and though I don't have black hair, shampoo is shampoo. Well, I guess "blacker" should have struck me, because it comes out of the bottle looking like this:

So I freaked at first, but so far my hair is no blacker than it was before- which was zero.
Jenn
Sorry about all the posts, I was hit by the blogger bug.
New Look
So I've been meaning to change the look of this blog since I made it, but it's taken a while. I know sometimes it's hard to get used to change in a website, so I tried not to move around too many things.
On another note, I had a wonderful day. I just wanted to let you know that since some of the last few have been a struggle. I made some couscous lentil salad for lunch and everybody loved it. I realized somewhere around 7 that I had probably been on my feet for about 8 hours or something like that. But I can tell that putting in the effort has made them more comfortable and made them feel like putting in some effort. So all lessons learned I retired to watch tv, change my blog and eat this:
YUM!
Jenn
Cucaracha
At this point I've killed so many cucarachas that if there is karma I'm coming back as one.
Lessons
So I'm taking from this the fact that I have learned to step up my game. I know how to work hard when I like it, or when I like the person I am doing it for, but I ahve trouble motivating myself when I feel that it is a pointless or graceless effort. However, I have always known sometimes we have to do things we don't want to and sometimes we have to do things for people we don't want to. The last few days have been tough, but rewarding, at least to myself. I have tried to put more effort into being part of the family, although I still feel they don't treat me as a member. And I have tried to do extra little things, even though instead of a thanks I usually get, "You see how easy it is?" Sometimes I want to scream. So this is me letting go. I cannot change the people or circumstances, but I can be happy with knowing I have done my best. Well most of the time I can.
Gas
So every time I read the newspaper and read that gas prices are at $4 a gallon I am relieved I am not driving at this moment in my life. I think I've spent as much on plane tickets as I would have on gas in the last 7 months. I don't know how you all do it. Get a bike!
It's gonna be a good day, just wait and see...
So, for anyone still reading...first things first....Acapulco. Friday I had a great day. Amelia and I talked all morning. I helped her make some kind of meat dish with green tomatoes and chilis and it was so delicious. The family didn't come home for lunch because they got invited to a birthday party so I was able to leave a little early for the bus. It ended up being good that it worked out this way, since I didn't get the bus until the next hour and who knows what it would have been like if I had left any later.
The bus ride was long, especially since I was looking forward to getting to the other end. However, the country is beautiful. There were plenty of mountains and little towns to look at in between Cuernavaca and Acapulco. The one thing I find completely strange about the buses in Mexico is that you can ask to get off anywhere, as long as you have paid to the stop past it. The bus will just pull off at the side of the road and drop people off. Also sometimes they stop at the side of the road in the middle of no where and a man gets on with a clipboard. The door closes and the man goes up and down the bus as the bus takes off. He looks at the seats and at the clipboard, and a little while later the bus stops again and the man gets off. Strange. Really, it's how it happens.
So finally I got to the bus station. I had to pee and didn't want to go on the bus cause I knew we were probably close. So I was like dying to get my luggage and get woff. I peed and then found my way to a taxi. It happened that their hotel was on the complete opposite end of the town, about a half an hour drive. I talked to the cab driver and he told me about the town and what was good to see. The hotel was in a quieter area, which was nice, and was very beautiful. Well the pool was beautiful, the hotel was unimmpressive, but the rooms were nice.
It was great to see my friends. We spoke English, fast. I never realized how fast we speak. I also was able for the first time to speak to people without having to censor what I was saying...not in the matters of curse words or anything, solely the fact I could say whatever I wanted about whatever without anyone getting mad. It was glorious.
The first night we went over to another hotel in the Mayan complex and met up with some guys they had befriended during the week. After pregaming a bit in their hotel room, we headed out to Paladium, a discoteque that the taxi driver had actually recommended. It was a lot of fun. Open bar, lots of people, lots of dancing. They even had this weird guy painted silver with a feather headdress the color of the Mexican flag come out and dance to a very inappropriate lyriqued techno song. We had a lot of fun and headed in at like 3 or so.
Saturday we all were up by about 11. Melissa, RJ and I went to the market across the street and got some food to eat. Then Melissa and I went to the fort that is in Acapulco from the Spanish. She wanted to see some historic things, which hadn't been anyone's focus as they all have real jobs, so I was happy to go. It was a nice museum and had some interesting things to say. It was also very nicely laid out and had some cool things I had never seen before. There was also a great view from the roof, of course, because it was used as a fort.
After the fort we hung out at the hotel for the afternoon. At 5ish we started getting ready for dinner and we hit the buffet at the other hotel. It was a bit expensive, although the food was ALMOST worth it. I ended up mostly spending all my pesos in Acapulco, except for the few I exchanged with Melissa for some USD.
Anyway, we missed the sunset on the beach we had wanted to see, but we did get some nice after dark pictures. And then we went back and changed and went to some club that I can't remember the name of. The music there was a lot better than the first night. There were a lot of people and an open bar, although when we got there we weren't sure about the people part so we sent in a scout to find out (a guy from not our friends so none of us would have to pay). I started a dance party on the platform . No one was there but the crazy people the club hired to dance like the Mexican NSYNC. (This part wouldn't really be that important, but it comes into play later, the me starting the dance party, not the Mexican NSYNC).
We got back to the hotel at like 4 something and went to the beach to say goodbye to the ocean. My friends left at 5:30 to go to the airport and as the door closed behind them I got sad for a minute realizing I was again alone and if I wanted to do anything Sunday it would be solo. But the sadness got overridden by my need to sleep. I had to wake up at 10 and I hadn't felt like calling the wake up call so I had an alarm I wasn't sure would work and kept waking up. I got up at 9:30, took a shower and checked out of the hotel. I walked across the street towards the taxis still unsure what I was going to do that day and when the taxi driver asked if I wanted a taxi I just asked him where was good in Acapulco to see. I ended up negotiating a tour with him for $18 an hour, a little expensive, but it was a great way to see things.
First we went to the Capilla de la Paz (Chapel of the Peace). It was built by a rich couple whose sons had died in a plane crash. It was a beautiful spot and had a beautiful view. The mass was going on so we couldn't go inside, but I've seen the insides of churches. We stopped at a lot of places with great views. One was a hotel called Hotel Flamingos where many famous people have stayed. I recognized Sybil Sheperd, John Wayne and Roy Rogers. It was a nice little place and there were many other hotels in the area with equally nice views, but they are losing business because most people want to be on the beach front.
He also stopped so I could see the murals done by Diego Rivera and some other interesting things. We went to a market where I spent the rest of my money. I found some great little things I hadn't seen anywhere else. I also had a great time talking to him about himself and Acapulco and got to practice my Spanish a lot.
Last we went to see the divers of Quedabra. It was really cool. There are little kids there who are learning to dive and then the older ones who jump from the top. While I was watching on the platform some guy who had grown up in San Diego started talking to me. He is now traveling throughout Mexico as a construction worker on Mayan Hotel buildings. Apparently he's also in some trouble with the US law, though I didn't ask what it was.
I left Acapulco at 3:25 or something and was excited to be getting back to routine and all. I didn't get as warm a welcome as I thought, but it was ok, the kids and I played and I went to bed early. I knew I had to talk to Nadine about stuff, but I didn't want to ruin my trip feeling so I waited until yesterday.
And now for the next part of the story. For those still reading I know I have talked some about a problem I had with Juan Carlos. Basically, he told me he didn't trust me with the children. Most of it was because of one incident with Louis where I grabbed him too hard and he got a scratch.
So I decided to talk to Nadine about it to make myself heard a little. I apologized for things I felt were my fault and asked for further guidance on some things. I feel like she turned a lot of things into my problem and mostly a problem of my character. There were many little things we don't seem to agree on, but we talked it out and I felt a bit better. I felt at least I could try to do things right and make some changes and everything would start to run smoother.
I was just praying yesterday went perfect and I could prove to her that I had listened and heard what she said and was going to try and make it work. Everything was going great until Clemence hit her head. I had everything under control and Clemence had almost stopped crying when Nadine came flying down the stairs yelling, "What happened?" I explained and then Juan Carlos came down, yelling as well. I couldn't say anything in Spanish after the accusing look he gave me and (have to admit) lost it and yelled that Clemence had lunged for some candy and I purposely had her slam her head into the chair. Not my finest moment, but sometimes you just lose it, especially when you are under pressure already. Everything ended up ok, but I went to bed tired and a little defeated.
Today I woke up iwth a positive attitude. I made a pasta salad for lunch, which is something new (I apparently wasn't trying hard enough with the cooking). I was a little annoyed when Nadine came down and saw me cooking and said, "Oh, you're cooking," in that tone of voice that you use when someone hasn't ever really done something and then just decided to do. I wonder what I've been doing all the other days they ate. Apparently it was magically showing up from somewhere. Ok, end bitterness. I ignored it and just politely said yes. They ended up liking it and I felt much better that they actually seemed to appreciate something I did.
Sometimes I feel maybe I do things they don't see, because I just do them and decide not to flaunt it to anyone. But if she wants more effort I will do what I have to to make this work.
However, today was good and made me feel much better. The kids have really started speaking in English. Clemence can form fully formed grammatical sentences. It's really cool to hear and know that I taught them that.
I have a job when I get back to the states. Sorry for all of those who have been waiting for me to come home, but I will only be home a few days again before I head to Lake George to watch Hannah and Rachel. I am excited to see them again and to go to Lake George. Their house sounds very nice and Janice is very excited (she hasn't told the kids yet just in case something happens). So you better start filling up my week home (or maybe few days) before I get there or you get no time.
AMANDA- if you read this I need you to help me pack. Cause you know I'd get nothing done without you.
Sorry for the insanely long post, I just had an insanely lot to say. I have left out a lot of the stresses and things because I feel it is too long and boring to read, but I feel it is unfair to only show the happy times...
Jenn
La rata
So....new adventure, a rat. We have known there was a rat in the house since last Wednesday. Nadine was putting laundry into the machine from the sink (Like the big ones most people have in the wash room). I was in my room and suddenly heard the loudest scream I'd ever heard. It happened four more times as I was coming from my room to the kitchen (passing the laundry room on my way). Nadine was standing by the window screaming bloody murder and would not tell me what had happened.
Finally she stopped long enough to say, "Una rata, una rata." She calmed down over the next minute, and told me the story. As she was putting the laundry into the machine she felt something furry move beneath her hand. She looked, saw a "huge, furry rat" and ran screaming from the room. Soon the neighbor came to see what had happened. I was surprised no one came sooner, as I had really thought she was hurt or in pain or saw something horrible. But, it was just our friendly rat.
Throughout the week we heard him a few times, rustling around in the washing room, which just happens to be located in the same area as my bedroom. So one morning I was not surprised to see the rat run across my path as I walked to the kitchen. It ran from behind the garbage to behind the washing machine. I just went about my day and told Nadine about it when I saw her again.
A few times in the last week we have found holes in some of the clothes in the laundry room. We also found droppings (or poop) in the kids bathroom upstairs. I even though I heard it running around one night. Although Nadine was concerned, we weren't quite sure how to go about getting it.
So last night I'm on my bed watching a little tv on my computer before I turn out my light when I hear a little noise. I thought, "the rat." Then I convinced myself I was being silly. I went back to watching, but I heard it again. I very bravely peeked my head behind my dresser, and sure enough, there it was doing it's little ratty things. I quickly but quietly moved from the room, climbed the stairs and called to Juan Carlos. I figured at least it was trapped in my room and maybe they could use that to remove it from the house. I felt a little bad, as I really didn't want the little guy dead, but he was ruining clothes and possibly furniture and there is the other issue of the diseases they carry and the biting and all.
So, after taking everything out of my room and me making a trip to the gate for one of the guards, asking in my nicest Spanish, "Puede ayudarnos, por favor. Hay una rata en la casa." (Ok I actually made a mistake and said Habia instead of Hay, but he understood rata). So we went back to the house and I let him in my room. After a lot of thumping around finally the door opened and out came the guard carrying the rat, bluck. Anyway, it was an exciting night, I guess.
I leave at 4:30 for Acapulco!!!!! YAY!!!
Jenn
Can't wait for tomorrow....
Tomorrow I go to Acapulco to see my friends!!! Yay!!!! I'm excited. It's been kind of a rough week and I think this will be just what I need.
I'm going to skip the apology for it being so long and just go right to what I've been up to. Saturday the kids had swimming in the morning. Afterwards I walked over to the Starbucks and enjoyed some time to myself. I was only going to do a little shopping afterwards but ended up doing a lot more.
I followed signs from Starbucks to try and get to the pyramid that's in town. I got really lost and ended up at the Super. I bought a few things for the kids and then walked across the street to the outdoor mall. I looked around for a while but clothes are very expensive here and I don't really need anymore anyway.
After the shopping trip I tried again for the pyramid, this time with success. It was actually really cool. It's in a big cleared out field in the middle of the town. It is a double pyramid, the people were in the process of building a bigger pyramid around the original small one when the Spanish came and took over. I thought it was much more impressive than the one I climbed nearly a mile to see. I'm just sorry I didn't have my camera, so I might have to visit again.
After the pyramid I made my way to the center because I know that a cab can find me there (I always call from the same place because I know I'll see the cab). At the Zocolo(or town square) there was a concert going on of like reggae music. There were people drawing pictures on large pieces of paper and a lot of people all around watching. I had a great time listening and then I realized it was getting late and I should head back to the house.
Sunday we didn't do much. Nadine left for a business trip so we went to the mall to eat. And then she was gone until yesterday night. I guess I'm still having a little trouble getting used to what the family wants from me and how they want their children taught, because Juan Carlos and I had a talk. But I don't really want to go into details. It's not that important and I will be trying my best to do what they like. I'm just glad that the children are so great, although I do really like the whole family. All I can say is Yay for tomorrow!!!!
The Center
I've wanted to blog about this weekend since it happened, but I have been busy. I taught the kids to make clay and we baked a few figures. Yesterday I was a little tired and right when she got home Clemence started acting out and I lost all patience with the kids, which in turn just makes them act worse.
But anyway, I had a great weekend. Saturday I was thinking about staying near the gym where we take the kids swimming, but Nadine didn't feel well so I wanted to stay and help her with the kids. So Sunday I was ready to go.
The family gave me a rid into the center and Nadine gave me a few suggestions on where to go. I started at the Jardin Borda. It is a large colonial period garden. I started by going to the two art room they have and then I entered the garden. It is very large and very beautiful (as you can see in the pictures I posted). there is a museum with pictures and other colonial relics. There was also a market to buy handmade crafts, paintings, and snacks. The handcrafts were some of the best I've seen anywhere in any market in the world. They weren't the same old same old that you get at all the Mexican markets, but actually well thought out crafts. I ended up buying two photographs as well as a bunch of things from one stall which I can't talk about because they might become presents for some of you.
However, at this stall I stopped and talked to the woman who had made the crafts. She had dreamed up the idea and figured out how to do it all on her own, which if you know what it is it's amazing she wasn't trained. She lives out in the forest between Mexico City and Cuernavaca and comes to the market int he garden every Sunday. She knew a lot about different things and even did my Mayan astrology for me (I'm Mano, the Hand). I had a good time talking to her and hope I can go back and see the new things she's made and get a chance to talk to her again.
After the garden I went to the coffee shop in the center that I have been to with the family a few times. I got a frappucino and sat and read my book for a while. It was a nice relaxing time by myself. After I had sucked my coffee dry I headed across the street to the Cathedral complex. There are three churches within the walls, two of which you can go inside. The third is very beautiful from the outside, though I really was curious about what was behind the heavy wooden doors.
I wandered around for a while and then thought I'd go to the supermarket I saw down the street for some craft stuff for the kids. I walked down there and around the air conditioned store for a while (however, Sunday was actually very nice out with a nice breeze and just enough sun). I didn't find anything I was looking for, so I headed back toward the center to look for the museum Nadine had mentioned. On my way I saw this sign for the Robert Brady house, so I went in.
Robert Brady was a man from teh United States who moved to Mexico and collected many Mexican art items, as well as items from around the world. It reminded me a lot of the house of Jim Thompson in Thailand who had a great affinity for Thai arcitecture. Many of the things in the Brady house were very interesting, and his garden was so beautiful I would have loved to live there just for that reason.
After finishing in the Brady house it started to look cloudy and ready to rain so I decided to call a cab. I walked to a little spot in front of the Cathedral where I could easily tell the cab company where to pick me up, called and waited. The cab came without fail and we headed home. And after I got there, it did rain. And the raind didn't stop until yesterday afternoon. It was my first rainy days in Mexico....bleh, let's not have that again.
Photos
Hacienda: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2193770&l=b209e&id=7804820
Tepotzlan (the pyramid): http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2196608&l=aeda0&id=7804820
Around the Center (I will post about this soon): http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2196610&l=95595&id=7804820
Raton...
So, the pests have grown larger. Yesterday there was a rat in the laundry. Well at least this is what Nadine managed to tell me after screaming bloody murder. I never saw the rat, thought there were a few holes in a shirt left as evidence that she did not make it up. I thought she had been bit by a scorpion or something. A neighbor even came to see what had happened.
I had a cucaracha climb in my bed one night. I woke up and thought I felt something, but I decided it must have been a hair or my imagination or something. But then I felt it again. I jumped out of bed, turned my light on full blast and took all the sheets off the bed. You never know, it could be a scorpion. I saw it scurry up the wall and, now fearless me, smushed it and left it on the floor to deal with in the morning.
Last weekend I went to Tepotzlan. It is an old city that brags a museum, a few churches, a market and a pyramid. I took a bus from Cuernavaca center, a small dark bus, through the bumpy roads and into Tepotzlan. I am not sure how the bus stops worked. None of them made any sense. There were just magically people waiting in certain places to get the bus. Having seen this on the way there at least I was warned and knew to start looking for the bus earlier than I might have, which in turn helped keep me from getting poured on by a sudden thunder storm. Turns out the bus ends at a bus station a little out of town. It took me three policemen and a little bit of exploratory walking and stopping before I figured this out.
But back to the day in Tepotzlan. I started out looking in a few shops after I jumped off the bus. I found the Zocolo, or market, and walked a lap around that before going in search of the pyramid. It took a little bit of walking and faith that I was not missing any of the signs, but I finally found it. You have to walk through a little market before reaching the bottom of the mountain that you must climb to reach the pyramid. I bought watermelon and sat at the bottom of the mountain and enjoyed it.
I thought I should go to the bathroom before the climb, but when I headed back to the place I had seen the bathroom I realized you had to pay and I didn't have a lot of change. So I walked all the way back to the base of the mountain to start my climb.
The climb started with stairs and then degenerated into stair like rocks and then just random rocks. As you climb the mountain you realize that anytime anyone ever wanted to go to the pyramid they had to make this climb. The sign said it was about 2 kilometers, so it wasn't too much, just very steep. The Indians must have had horrible knees.
It was a hard climb, in the heat, with no one to talk to, but it was nice. Having no one with me meant I could take breaks when I felt like it and go for as long as I felt I could before collapsing onto a rock to take a rest. I did talk to a few people on the way up, but it was nice to actually look at the things around me rather and take my time rather than just being concerned with getting up the mountain to see the pyramid. Honestly, if I had done that I would have been severely disappointed.
The pyramid was neat, but very small and mostly fallen down. There were a few carved rocks but the best thing was the view from the top. I guess that's why people bother climbing mountains instead of doing the stair climber in the gym. The view is always so cool and is almost as good as if you could fly. The breeze up there was nice too. I wanted to stay longer, but the sunscreen I had brought ended up being empty and I knew I was getting burned so I headed down.
On the way down I heard these people playing drums. They were on their way up so I fell in behind them and climbed up behind them a little bit. However, I finally looked at my clock and realized if I wanted to do anything else I'd have to get down because I had decided to look for the bus at 5ish.
I went down and went through the market. I found the entrance to the museum but decided I'd save it for another day because I didn't have much more time. As I said before I'm glad my schedule was what it was, or I would have been drenched. I got on the bus just as the first drops began to fall.
This week has been mostly uneventful. I have played with the kids and done my thing. I don't know what I will do this weekend, but we will see.
Cuchillos
So it's hard to cut through things without a sharp knife. No, this is not some sort of metaphor for life, though I'm sure someone could make it one. And then I'd be the famous sayer of a saying. But really people, it's hard to cut things without a sharp knife. I never wanted for sharp knives in my life, since my dad is the king of the sharpener. So I never really understood those commercials, "It even cuts through a tomato." But I just tried to cut a tomato with a dull knife. NOT EASY.
Ok...
So here goes, since I know I owe a post of last weekend, last week and this weekend, I will try my best to get it all done before the kids wake up. Last weekend wasn't very eventful. We went to the City of Mexico on Saturday for a birthday party. It took 3 hours to get to the house because it took almost an hour or so to get to the city, an hour to get across the city and an hour to find the house. We got very lost, which was find with me cause I got to see all the pretty houses of the city. There are many houses there where rich people live that are very beautiful. Nadine got very worked up about being lost and wanted to get home. She gets very worked up about everything, I mean EVERYTHING. I think that's the one big problem I have, because she is always asking "I'm right, no?" and what am I supposed to say. She's also very critical. It makes me sad to know the kids will most likely grow up just as critical as her.
It's hard watching kids who are not yours for the majority of their time at home. These kids are the spoiled kids you see throwing a fit in the supermarket with no one trying to do anything about it except the nanny and the parents kind of just stand there waiting. And then they buy them chocolate cokies and the yogurt drink they want and the flan and a toy and wonder why their kids are always throwing fits and never eating. Maybe it's because the minute they cry you give them what they want, so they don't even bother asking, they go straight to whining, except with me cause I won't let them. And maybe they'd eat better if you weren't constantly giving them sweets and bottles of chocolate milk. But that's just an observation. Maybe it's not that at all.
Anyway, this past week was ok. The kids were home from Wednesday on and Nadine went on a trip to Costa Rica Thursday night to Saturday morning. We didn't do anything too special. Wednesday after school we met some of their classmates parents and classmates at a restaurant. It was a little boring because no one was really talking or anything, so I went and played with the kids. At least they were having fun on the playground that looked like it might fall and kill them, but hey, fun...right?
This Sunday I went out on my own for the first time. I got a new cell phone at the mall last weekend, so I had all the numbers I needed. I headed out of the plaza where we ate breakfast and went across the street to the Muros cultural center. They had all this really cool modern art. I really liked it, especially the art that was there from the Down Syndrome initiative. I can't remember the name of the society, but a man decided to teach Down Syndrome patients to use art to express themselves, and they are really good drawings. Especially the ones in linoleum.
I really liked looking at all the art, but I still don't really understand it. I mean I understand it expresses something. But I feel that a bit of that expression is taken away hanging it on a white wall devoid of creativity. In the room with the Down Syndrome paintings there was a large mural done by Diego Rivera. That was really cool. It covered the whole ceiling and halfway down the walls. I felt that that helped me appreciate the art more. there were also two really nice photographs in another room but I can't remember the artist's name. However, the museum was free so perhaps I will go back at some point.
After the art museum I went to the grocery store to get a few things and then headed off to walk to the center of town. I got really lost, and ended up walking into the big market that they have in Cuernavaca. I bought a pair of flip flops cause my others smelled really really bad and then I went to look at the other things. It reminded me a lot of the market in Thailand that we went to, although it was a bit smaller and more confusing. It took me an hour to find an exit, although I got to see a lot. The people there were not too pushy. They called to you to ask about prices, but if you ignored them or said no they left you alone.
Finally, I found my way out of the market and walked some more until I sort of came upon the center by accident. I got myself an ice cream because It was really hot and I was kind of tired. I went to the old palace which was filled with a museum. It was $3 so I went in and looked at the things. they had really cool stones carved by the different Indian groups from before the Spanish conquests. I had seen many pictures of stone like them, but never one in real life. I really wanted to touch them, but I think it's prohibited.
In the upper half of the museum they had colonial artifacts. I looked at them, but not well because it was like an oven upstairs in a brick building with wood floors and no air conditioning. So I breezed past most of the things, but I got the idea. I've seen colonial things anyway. But it was sort of interesting seeing Spanish vs. British colonial things. The Spanish things were, well, very Spanish. And I can say that cause I've been to Spain and seen their things.
I took a taxi home. You have to call for a taxi, which intimidated me for a minute, but it was ok. My cell phone is clear and I can hear what they are asking well. Sometimes when I talked on Nadine cell phone I couldn't hear anything anyone was saying. But on mine I can, so everything worked out ok.
I came home tired, but they hadn't even eaten yet. So I helped with the kids and the food and the kids bath after that and finally got to bed at 10 o'clock or so. Now I'm just waiting for the kids to get up to start my day.
Much love,
Jenn
Cucarachas Disaperecen
So, just a quick little story while I have a little time. I have killed two cucarachas in my shower- on separate occasions. I hide them under the drain so that I don't have to deal with them until they are dried out, cause squishy bugs are yuckier then dry ones. So anyway, the next day when i go to deal with it, I pull up the drain cover and the cucarachas are gone. Now I have no clue how tey disappear. I know they were dead. Maybe their friends come for them. Or maybe they dry up and fall through the drain. However, they do it, it is a nice surprise because it makes it easier for me.
So you know what really annoys me....
Well, I know a lot of things annoy me, like when people stand in the middle of your walking path and feel that it is your fault you can't get through or when people snap and me and then there's when people repeatedly tell me things I know (not stories, cause I know I annoy people with this, facts- like 2+2=4...although what is a fact anyway). All this is besides the point and mostly comes from growing up with the two parents that I was sent to. I love them (you) dearly but they both have their neurotic tendencies, which have now become my neurotic tendencies that I curse them and bless them for almost everyday.
But back to what really annoys me. Why do people get all frustrated over something so quickly? Now I understand there are sometimes circumstances out of your control, which automatically makes humans mad, but there are many things that you do have in your control before you have to throw in the towel.
Now for a specific example. Say someone had to shred carrots for their son's teacher one day and they waited til the morning of to do it. Now this could never happen in my family since my mother would have bought a prepared things like 5 days in advance with a written map on how to do it. Or maybe a bunch of whole carrots would have been sent with a grater and a note saying, "Sorry my daughter didn't tell me until 8:45 this morning." Whatever way, there would have been some exhasperated sigh and life goes on.
Ok, now say these carrots had to get done by not my family. Well, of course you could use the food processor that comes in handy for quick preparation. Three minutes into grating you hear a snap and there is plastic in your perfect carrot shavings. Ok, stop the processor, dump the carrots and move on. (This can be done with a lot of swearing...although this is what starts annoying me.) So now you try again. But something inside the processor is broken. More swearing, more annoying. You pick up the blender and take it to better light to better assess the situation. Good move. You take it apart, swear at the pieces and without really looking at what needs to be in place for this to work you reassemble the pieces and try again. Bad move. Do this a couple more times...take apart, look mad, put together, turn on, curse repeat.
So, we all know by now that this has gone way past hypothetical and is totally about my morning. I was just dumbfounded at how many minutes a person can waste not doing anything about their situation, not even thinking, well at least appearing to be not thinking. I think this annoyed me most of all, the not thinking part. If you stopped swearing and moving pieces and really looked and thought about what occurs when you turn on the processor and press the carrot onto the grater you might have seen the way to put it together. Now granted it was still broken after this, but let's at least TRY for some intelligent grating.
And when you see it is not going to work, what do we do next? This simple question, taught to most first graders when reading stories and problem solving, saves a lot of time. So why not look for something else that will grate a carrot, use your frustration and grate the carrots before someone punches you in the face.
And this is the end of the lesson on how not to annoy me, or how to do it perfectly.
ok, now i'm really being bitter
taken from http://www.nytimes.com/2008/04/29/business/worldbusiness/29oil.html?_r=1&partner=rssnyt&emc=rss&oref=slogin
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Hace mucho tiempo
Ok, so I'm long overdue. Sorry, but I just haven't felt in the blogging mood much, but I have been busy and have plenty to write.
First, an update in the Cucaracha Chronicles (this is what Lauren and I have taken to calling the unavoidable cockroach stories). Sunday night (well I think it was Sunday night), I was in th shower cleaning off a day full of dirt. There is a lot of dust here since it is so dry in the dry season, imagine that. Anyway, I was having a lovely time, when I looked down and there was a black smudge moving around the shower floor. I had not yet recieved my contact package so I was pretty blind, but I knew it was moving and therefore, had to be a cucaracha in my shower. I tried to get it to run out, but it was afraid of the water and every time I moved it charged towards me. Trying another strategy, I turned off the water hoping this would encourage him to get out of the shower. All of this was done with lots of those funny little hops people make when they see a bug or a mouse, as if this helps keep the bug from seeing you or being able to predict your next move- although they always do, as well as with me coaching the cucaracha, "Pelase leave...Please....Get out, please." I am very polite with bugs.
Ok, so finally it left. I finished my shower but then realized I had to figure out how to get the cucaracha out of my room without having to crunch it's little body below a shoe. It decided to crawl all the way up the wall as I chased it and rested behind my bathing suits that are hanging on the shower pole. I figured it was safe there for a while so I went to go talk to Nadine and Clemence. I returned to my rom after a few minutes with determination. It crawled even farther up the wall when I exposed it from behind the swim suit so I had to throw my shoe at the ceiling while yelling at it. Nadine thought it funny I decided to talk to the cucaracha, and we all had a good laugh as I climbed on the toilet and treid to get it to come down far enough for me to do something about it. And then it fell form the ceiling and disappeared. We looked everywhere for it, but the sucker had just vanished.
A while later, I was thinking about going to the bathroom (yeah I was thinking aobut it- you would to if there was a large funky looking bug lurking somewhere in there) and had an idea. Maybe the cucaracha had fallen into the toilet paper roll that was sitting on my toilet bakc. And sure enough there it was. So I slid the roll between two books and let it back out into the wild so that it may return someday to delight you all with another story.
And while we're on the topic of bugs, I saw my first scorpion yesterday. Nadine called me downstairs while I was reading to the children to help her with something. When I got to the bottom of the stairs she was standing there with a shoe in her hand. She told me there was a huge scorpion. Now being form the suburbs of New Jersey, I have not seen a scorpion outside of a museum or the televsion. I am picturing a monster with claws beared ready to eat my hand off. We get ot the laundry room, and there's this scorpion hanging out on the wall close to the ceiling. The tail was curled in and it was probably about an inch and a half long. I was less than impressed. But Nadine assured me that this little bug could kill Louis and cause serious problems for all of us if it bit. So she bravely killed it, with me standing behind with a shoe in case it should fall before being completely obliterated. Then we had to look for the "other one" because according to everyone they always come in pairs. When we did find the other one I realized why she said this one was huge. The second was tiny, probably the length of the word second. So then we searched everything.
Last night was interesting. Besides the scorpions there was a lizard in the house (good thing, because they eat the scorpions). It was cute with really buggy eyes. The power also went out for a while and we sat in the candlelight until it came back on.
Last weekend was good. Again Nadine said something about my effort, which, after working hard the whole week, really hit me hard. But she explained that sometimes Juan Carlos doesn't ask for things because he just expects you to do them and when you don't he gets annoyed. This is hard, especially because I am coming into their family and most of the time I am taking care of the children with their parents present (ok all of the time they are present) so I sometimes feel I am stepping on toes. However, just hearing that helped, and I am working harder and I do believe that Juan Carlos is making an effort to aks if he thinks I am not doing something I should.
Saturday we went to a botanical garden. It was beautiful and cool which was nice because sometimes it really is very hot. Anyway, we saw monkeys and ducks and some funny animals I don't know the name of. wE also went to the petting zoo they had with exotic animals such as cows, sheep, chickens and bunnies (which were soooooo cute and you could hold them).
Sunday we got up early and went to an hacienda. It was built in the 1500s and was beautiful (pictures soon, I promise). The kids, Juan Carlos and I rode a horse in a boring little circle, but Clemence loved it so much it was worth it. We ate breakfast on a really old deck of a really old hotel. After that we walked through teh gardens and took pictures and such. At around noon we left and I assumed we were going home until we didn't return to the highway. I got really confused but figured they knew where we were going.
We ended up going to visit Juan Carlos's aunt and cousins at their weekend house in Cuernavaca. They all live in Mexico City, but a lot of people there have houses out in Cuernavaca. Anyway, we spent the whole afternoon eating and playing and talking (well I mostly listened, but it was a good time in Spanish).
Monday and Tuesday were pretty uneventful. Yesterday, an accountant came from Mexico City and Clemence had a play date, so Nadine asked me to make some special food. I made oatmeal raisin cookies, which turned out good because I learned on Monday that you do have to adjust for high altitude when baking. I also made a fruit salad, fish, and a tomato and cheese salad. I started at 10:30 and wasn't finished until the kids walked in the door at 2 something. Then I had to go right into watching the kids. I didn't sit until like 4 or something and then after that I was going and going and going until the lights went out at 8 something. It was a long day to say the least.
So I am happy that Amelia is here today. I went to the pool and swam and read this morning. It was relaxing. Then I helped Amelia with the food. We made chipotle salsa again, but last week Nadine broke the blender so we did it the old fashion way, with a mojate. It's something like a mortar and pestle, made out of heavy stone. Because most of you have never done that, let me just say, crushing tomato and onion skin between two stone surfaces is not easy. Be happy we have blenders.
So sorry that was so long. I just did do a lot in the last few days. Hope you didn't give up on it.
Jenn
Oh and because I'm bitter, here's an article about how Europe also contibutes to Global Warming...Europe sucks too! Let's move to the moon...
Estoy Cansada
I'm tired (as I said above) but I have told so many people that I was going to blog that I just have to do a little something. Not much interesting has occurred. Last weekend was a bit rough as I worked almost the whole time, got no thanks and got yelled at for not helping enough. But Nadine was gone Monday and Tuesday which helped a lot, not because I don't like Nadine, but because it gave me a chance to establish some kind of routine for the kids. Now they go upstairs to look for their parents less, they whine less and everyone's day is better.
This week I have figured out how to give Louis a bath without him crying, actually get both kids to eat, get the kids up to bed without a huge fight (even when I turn the TV off in the middle of their favorite show and how to get them to actually say please and thank you for things I do (If only this applied to the parents as well). Anyway, these may seem like little triumphs, but to those of you who remember your children young...you know what I'm talking about.
This week I also touched a piece of raw meat, beef even. I know...gasp! It's the first time I'm ever done this that I can remember. But when an elderly Mexican woman asks you to cut the meat muy chica, you don't really say no. It's just not a thing you do. So I'm not dead yet from this experience, so I guess it was a building character thing. Maybe I don't have to run sick every time I'm in a meat secton of the store, although I think it will take much more touching meat for this to be possible, and it's not really something I'd like to continue in my life.
Let's see...oh, so I find it really funny what people decide to get hung up on. Juan Carlos is hung up on the kids always having on sunblock, although I don't know if he realizes that 100 proof sunblock does nothing better than 45 and that you have to reapply. Nadine is hung up on the environment and health. This is all fine and good, buy organic food, buy organic products, drive a small car. But if you are really concerned about all the SUVs in America and how much we are ruining the planet maybe you should look at how many times a day the washing machine is running. I have never in my life had to do 2 loads of laundry a day or more in order for things to stay clean. Nobody's perfect, but lay off the SUVs. Yes they are gas guzzling, environment ruining machines, but a lot of people can actually use the space in America. And we have enough parking to fit them all.
Jennifer
I would also like to say that if I have things in all of my ten million hands, please do not ask me to carry something like you can't hold it for one more second. I will carry it, but I don't have more hands than you and your ten seconds is not more precious than mine, so just let it go. This is a random rant. Surprisingly I'm not mad tonight, I'm just tired and was mad like 5 days ago and writing about it helps. So thank you to all of you for being a great therapist. Good night.
Cumpleaños
So, as an anthropologist and a rational human I know that stereotypes don't just show up out of thin air, there had to be some place they came from. Maybe they are not always one hundred percent acurrate or fair, but they are based on some truth- either picked up by the "others" or used to create inside jokes.
When I think of Mexico, I think of tacos (and other tasty foods), the chihuahua (which I have learned is also the name of a mountain range), and piñatas. And that's exactly what there was at the birthday party we attended today. Ok, there really wasn't a chihuahua, but one woman did actually use the expression "Ay, chihuahua," no joke. I thought it funny because when I thought about coming to Mexico I did not think it would actually be the way I imagined. I thought that they would eat things like we do at home, which they do, but there is always some kind of chili or salsa or tortilla to accompany the green salad or beef. There are a lot of things that are different from how I might have expected if I had time to expect anything, but a lot of things really are how they are. I guess that some Mexican traditions have become so ingrained in America now that it seems that they shouldn't really be Mexican...or something like that.
Anyway, the birthday party was a lot of fun. It was at a place kind of like chucky cheese, but a lot smaller. Really I should compare it to the McDonalds Play Place, because that it was it was more like. There was lots of food and I got to listen and practice my Spanish some. It also gave me a day to not have to constantly run after the kids (although yesterday was not hard since Clemence and Louis are both sick- with different things might I add).
The strangest things about the whole situation was the amount of foreigners at the party. Since the kids go to a French school many of the people are French (mostly the women). I met some women from the US as well. One woman I had met previously at Louis' swimming was born and raised in Mexico but has French parents and spent a year in Michigan as an au pair. Another Mexican woman had spent three years in France as an au pair. The people all have very interesting backgrounds and it will be cool to see if I get to talk to any of them more because, again, as an anthropologist all this is entirely intriguing to me. Often Nadine asks me if I am bored because I guess I appear to be completely spaced out, but it is just that I have to concentrate hard when listening to conversations in Spanish at a distance.
Anyway, I have to get to bed. I have not clue what I will be doing for the weekend, but I'm sure it will bring on more crazy thoughts for you to suffer (I mean read) through.
Jenn
Hace calor y cucarachas
So I've seen my first (and second and third and fourth) Mexican cucaracha! Today one crawled across my bed as I was talking to people online. But at least they are friendly, unlike the scorpions. Luckily I have not seen one of these, but Nadine said she has killed two this week. Oh the wonders of living in paradise!
Last week nothing of too much consequence occurred. I learned how to make a tomato soup with alphabet letters and fish heads from the Mexican woman, Amelia, the family has to help with cleaning and other things. It was surprisingly good. She returned today and will stay through Friday afternoon, so I will hopefully learn some more traditional Mexican recipes. It's pretty cool to learn from someone who just knows these things. Although I should write them down so I don't forget.
This weekend we went into town and I saw some of the old cathedral, a market and some other building in the town center. I will have to return at some point to take pictures and to explore more. It is a little intimidating because the city is huge so I must take a taxi, or a very very long walk to get to the center, and I am a little timid of the taxis since I don't speak Spanish natively and I don't know where anything in this city really is. I am hoping to talk to the former au pair about this, as Nadine has given her my email (and if she does not contact me I will ask for hers).
I spend most of my time with the family and the children, though in the morning I do have a few hours of quiet to myself. So far it has not been a problem that I have not made any friends. I get to talk to different people when I take Louis to swimming and when I go to the pool around here. I do not know if this will become a problem in the future. The only reason it would be nice, would be to have someone to go places with since I would love to go see the pyramids and the rest of the center of town and maybe some other places outside the city. But either I will do it alone or I will find someone to do it with eventually. It is only my second week, so for now I am happy.
This job is fun, but hard. It should be required for everyone who desires to be a housewife. I do many household duties in the morning before I get my 2 or 3 hours off and then I go from the time I start cooking around 1 until 9 o'clock at night. It is a good eight hour job, and most of it I am on my feet doing something or carry someone. As a job it is fine, but I could not dedicate my life to this forever. Although it is not mindless work or useless by any means, I feel after a while it would lose some entertainment value. And in the end the kids are not mine and the house is not mine, so the entire responsibility does not rely on my shoulders. I do not know if I want to have kids, but if I do have them, I have no illusions that it will be an easy task, especially if, as I would like to, work as well. So thank you to all the mothers (and don't forget the fathers...I will explain later why here it was an after thought) out there. You do a pretty damn good job!
Now as for Mexican family relations, I do not think I could do it. Nadine and Juan both own the company that they work for, but Nadine also has all the household duties. I have no clue how she did it without an au pair. Juan helps with the kids often, but when I said that my father often cooks at home she was shocked. Juan has never cooked a day in his life. I find this frustrating. And I know all families work differently, ut the division of labor does not seem to be equal here. There are cultures that divide duties of men and women into separate categories in order to keep the burden of labor somewhat equal, even though the tasks are different. This is how it used to be in the Western world. Women has the house and men worked outside in the work world. But once women enter the work world (and the debate whether this is good or not has nothing to do with it) out of want or necessity it seems that there should be some balancing of the duties. Although this seems common sense, and most people I know share these beliefs, it is interesting living it for real.
Also, I have no clue what the history between France and US is, but I know there is tension. I will have to read up on the problems, but it is definitely apparent. Although, I think in Europe most countries have some stereotype of Americans that I and many would not fit and would be offensive if it weren't laughable. Nadine, as a French woman (and perhaps a Mexican), definitely has her ideas about America. Though she is never rude about it you can tell she thinks we are all wasteful people who don't care about the environment and continually consume packaged products that are bad for us. AND that we are too stupid to see what we are doing.
The latter part is the problem I have with this. Now, yes, many Americans are this way. But there are many countries who have decided to subscribe to this way of life. Are they all stupid too? Because, the US may bring their products somewhere and advertise them and maybe they know they are bad and shouldn't even be selling them, but the people in these other countries could just say no. I understand there is blame to be placed on the US, but not all of it. It is not the fault of Coca Cola that the people want to buy their products. Someone will always buy it regardless of the fact it is bad for them or it kills the environment or small companies or whoever or whatever cause we are defending this week.
These are not well thought out arguments, I know, I am not composing a paper on this at the moment, but they are just some interesting things I have noticed. They are not new arguments and will not be old arguments anytime soon, but it would be nice to not feel it is completely the problem of the US that the world weather system is going crazy. I may be paraphrasing a bit...
OK....
Sorry it's been so long, there was the week at home and then there was the coming to Mexico and a problem with the internet, but finally everything is fine.
Anyway, first things first, the end of Spain. Normally I would not bother, but this seems a story worth telling.
So I went to bed at midnight, a little late because I had to get up at like 4:30, but it took me forever to pack. I set my alarm and all and warned myself to get up. So I woke up at some point and I was lying there for a long time wondering when my alarm would ring. Eventually I looked at the clock, it was 6 o'clock. I mumbled a few curse words as I jumped out of bed and got dressed faster than I ever have before. I ran out the door, looked for a taxi stand and tried not to panic too much. At some point I realized there was no taxi coming and that I didn't have enough time to get to airport anyway. The bus station was just a block away. I walked to it, hoping all the way there would be a train that got to Madrid on time. Luckily there was, and it left at 7, a half an hour from the time I arrived at the station. I bought my ticket without problems (although when the man said cien euros I almost had a heart attack) and got on the train. I chatted a little with the woman next to me and then watched the movie they had on, though I hardly understood it.
The train arrived at the station on time and I got a txi to the airport. It cost a lot, but I had a lot of cash from my deposit, although the night before I had decided to use it for something special for me at the airport shops. Anyway, I had a few cafe con leches and shopped a little bit and then got my plane to London. The flight was delayed because of the weather and then I think we circled over London a bit because the weather there was also nasty. It was 5:30 when we got to security for the connection. After we got through we had to wait in another line to get our tickets. I befriended the guy behind me, which ended up being good because we ended up staying in London for the night and I at least had someone to comiserate and eat with. The hotel Iberia put us in was beautiful and the food wasn't too bad. We went and watched a wedding that was going on and then went to the bar for a little bit where I had yet another political discussion with random strangers.
My flight the next day was at 8:55. Everything went smoothly and I ended up home one hour before Easter dinner.
And as for Mexico...
The flight here was uneventful. I collected my baggage and was so happy to have Juan Carlos there to greet me when I came through the gate. The drive from Mexico city was maybe an hour, but I slept through most of it. I was very tired from the night before and waking up early. When I arrived Nadine welcomed me and I met the children, Clemence and Loius. They are adorable. Clemence is five and Loius is two. Both of them have way too much energy but it's good because at least they are fun.
Saturday night we went to Costco and some Mega store that reminds me of Walmart. Then we had Santa Clara ice cream bars. Clemence was shocked I didn't know what these were, but they were good.
Sunday we went to breakfast with some of their friends. After we went to the mall and then to the house of the friends to look at the work they are doing rebuilding the house.
Everything here is very colorful and very beautiful. There are palm trees and blue skies. The house that Nadine and Juan Carlos live in is called a condominium, but unlike at home, all the houses look different on the outside at least. I have been inside one other house and it is similar but not the same. We wnet to visit a neighbor whose daughter had had a baby. Here in Mexico when you have a baby you go to live with your mother for the first couple of weeks.
My days so far are pretty full. I get up at ten of seven and go to the school with Juan Carlos and the kids. It is about a half and hour away by car in a tiny pueblo. There are already many people out by this time of morning and it is already 22 degrees celsius when I wake up. During the day it reaches more than 30 and inside the house it is usually 33 in the upstairs.
After returning from the school and whatever errands Juan Carlos has I have free time. I usually read or go ot the pool and swim a bit. Yesterday (Wednesday) I took a taxi back to teh school and helped with Loius's swim class. There is an instructor but basically every kid is paired with their mom or a family member and then we just hang out in the water for a little while. After an hour we return to the school and I read until Juan Carlos came for the kids.
After the kids return from school we eat a large lunch. Yesterday we ate at the mall at a sushi restaurant, but usually I make something for lunch for everyone and then I play with the kids until around7:30 and then it is bath time. After that we eat a light lunch and then the kids go to bed. Usually I go to bed soon after this because I am very timered. The sun is strong here and the heat is killer at times, so it is necessary to sleep enough or I can't function.
Anyway I will write soon.
Jenn
Ultima Dia de Clase
Well today was my last day of class. There is no class tomorrow because of Semana Santa. Now, here's a little bit of Spanish culture for everyone. In the US we have Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, Saturday (I forget the name), and then Easter. Here there is an entire week where they celebrate Semana Santa (the literal translation is Saint Week). I should have been in Andulucia, or the south of Spain, during this time because it is where all the action happens. I was there for Carnaval so I can't complain too much, but here in Barcelona, the Catalunya region, they celebrate this week differently from the rest of Spain. Here they have something called a "mona." This is a sculpture out of chocolate. In all of the Pastelerias are little scenes from different movies or other little sculpted animals. They are very cute and I wish I could carry one home without it breaking into a million pieces, but I do have pictures.
Anyway, in the Andalucia region, and many other regions of Spain, during Semana Santa they have processions every day with different scenes from the crucifixion. There are also often penetents, who wear robes similar to those of the KKK but in different colors. Thursday, Friday and Monday all schools are closed (except ours is only Friday and Monday) and the businesses are all closed Friday and Monday.
I may see if I can see a procession tomorrow in a town that is a part of BArcelona. My teacher said it might be possible, but it depends on how tomorrow goes and if I feel like trying to search it out. Anyway I will most likely not write again until I am in New Jersey. I fly out of Barcelona at 7 in the morning on Saturday (my time) and land in Madrid at 8:10. I will leave Madrid at 3:15, so it will make for a super exciting day in the airport! I land in London at some point and have a 2 hour layover. Finally, I land in Newark at 11ish, to be met by whatever family has dragged their butts out that late to get me. The next week will be crazy and quick then I pack up and head for Mexico. I'm so excited for my week home, but I just got an email from my family in Mexico and am excited to go there too. They sound like they are anticipating my arrival because they are busy with work and desperately need my help.
Adios mi gente! Gracias para su visita (ok I just like that all teh napkinds in Spain say this!).
Jenn
Una Buena Fin de Semana
So this weekend turned out to be full of fun. On Friday I had class and then met up with Ashley. It was her birthday so we decided to go in search of some good food, a few drinks, then call it a night so that we could get up the next day for touring. We started walking around La Rambla, the large walking street. We found a plaza with a cute little restaurant where we decided to take a coffee and (we thought) a little food. We ended up ordering pesto pasta for each of us and a "tortilla" to share. I got a cappuchino. It was fantastic, the food, the drink, the little restaurant. It was so cute and the food was so tasty.
Afterwards, we were a bit full so we decided to walk a while. We walked up and down La Rambla. We thought we might get ice cream or some cake, but we needed to walk a while. We walked down one pretty sketchy street, although I think it was just the impression we got from how it looked. We turned around and as we briskly walked up the street I saw the cutest little shop. It was birght and full of color, the walls were painted with all different types of fruit and other colorful shapes and things. I got a juice, because I was craving something good for me. Strawberry Lemonade, freshly made. So good.
After the little foray into the juice bar, Ashley wanted to have a Bailey's hot chocolate, but it is tough to find like watery hot chocolate in Spain. We decided Dunkin Donuts would be the place to go. On our way back to the Dunkin Donuts on La Rambla we found a place selling little bottles of booze and purchased the Baileys. At DD she got a hot chocolate and I got a donut, which I have no clue what it was because it wasn't labeled, and I simply asked for "la naranja." Ashley felt a little weird about pouring the Baileys into the hot chocolate until two boys sat at a table across from us with an entire bottle of wine to compliment their donuts.
Finished with the sweets, we took back to La Rambla for a few more drinks. We took some pictures, peed in the McDonalds and laughed at the men selling beers on the sidewalk (so weird for two girls from country where this is far from fathomable). We were in the middle of one of these laughing bouts when we saw Mecca- and International Beer Bar.
Let me explain here a minute. There are three beers in Spain. San Miguel, Cruzcampo and Estrella, the last is not usually found in bars. To even find another type of beer is rare. Ashley does not like many beers, though she discovered one at Erasmus that she liked- Monte something that has raspberries in it.
Back to the story- they had the beer she liked. And I got a Hoegaarden. But they were expensive, so we figured we'd drink the one slowly and then head home.
Here's where the night really started. There were two English men fighting over a 20 euro bill, not really fighting, and we never did find out what it was about. But I turned to Ashley and jokingly said I'd take it, then we could buy another beer. The lady next to us heard, and she happened to be with the two men and relayed my message to the two of them. The two men and the woman asked if we would like another beer. We talked to the girl for a while, her name was Esther. They were there for one of the men's birthday.
Ashley and I went and sat with them at their table. Two Martins, Barry (who was kind of cute but with Esther), Collin, Esther and Sharon. Esther said they needed some more women in their group. We sat with them and had another beer and a few laughs. They were an odd group. Martin, Esther and Sharon had known each other since they were four. Esther was a stage actress, but also worked with Barry as a Property Developer. Sharon had had lots of jobs. I didn't really get either of the Martin's stories and Collin was a jittery little 60 year old English man.
After the beer bar they wanted to go dancing, but it was a little early for that in Spain so we decided to head for a bar on the Placa Reial. As we were standing outside the bar deciding this, Collin disappeared. A man on a bike approached us and told us that our friend had walked off with some prostitutes and they were going to mug him. So we thanked the man and set off down the road to find Collin. Ashley, Barry, Esther and I hung back while the others went to get Collin out of the prostitutes grip. They said that the girls were just about to take his money when they got him, so we got out of there quickly. Barry said this wasn't the first time this has happened to Collin...so I guess they weren't shocked at all. Ashley and I just laughed...because what else are you supposed to do.
We all walked to the Placa Reial, and somehow Collin got lost again, but this time we didn't go look for him and left him to his own devices. We sat on the plaza and drank Sangria and beer and had a good chat. It was fun to talk to some new people and all of them had interesting things to say. Later Collin returned, without his money and without his phone. No one really had sympathy since we had told them that was going to happen. Then Collin started some crazy conversation about America and the IRA and I didn't really follow it, but it's ok.
The fun ended at 5 or so and I came home to my bed to sleep until 11:00.
Saturday Ashley met me at my apartment at 12 noon. We headed toward this dress shop she had seen. We walked forever and ever and saw a lot of things. We walked through a large park, we ate crepes at a small cafe, we did some shopping, we saw all the people on La Rambla selling birds and animals and flowers, as well as all the "statue people." We also visited the market where they sell lots of different types of fruit and chocolate for pretty cheap. I bought a fruit salad, with kiwi and pineapple and dragon fruit, some coconut, a fruit drink and some chocolate. I returned home around 5 expecting to have gotten a new roomate, but there was no one. So I get my room to myself this week! However, I did feel bad because my roomate who is here had not done anything that day and I think he was a bit lonely but I was too tired to try and have a conversation. I went to bed because I had another big day ahead of me.
I had read that Palm Sunday the people of Barcelona bring palms to La Sagrada Familia, the large cathedral that Guadi (the famous architect with many buildings in Barcelona) started. Ashley and I were supposed to meet at her apartment at 11, but I didn't make it until 11:30 because I misjudged my time. Luckily I got there when I did, because I just caught her before she left without me.
We got some pastries and headed toward La Sagrada Familia. We were not expecting what came next. There was a huge crowd standing in front of the gates of the cathedral. Literally everyone and their dog was there that morning holding palms. Many of the palms here are sculpted into cool bird cage like structures. The children had palms, the adults had palms, some people carried clusters of another type of plant. It was so cool to see all the people there listening to the service. They answered the songs and waved their palms at the appropriate moments. The cathedral was pretty cool too, especially the big clusters of grapes on top of some of the spires.
Ashley and I purchased some things from the little stands around the cathedral and then made our way around the entire structure in order to see all the facades. On our way around the enormous stone carved building we saw a place with a huge salad bar. THe sign outside offered all you can eat for 10.70. We decided that this was a great deal and we would walk around the city and return at 4 for linner.
We made a huge square. We walked all the way down to the sea. On the way we got some ice cream, and must have looked totally like tourists in our summer clothes with ice cream cones while all the locals still wore their winter jackets and long pants. The weather was beautiful, exactly what we were hoping for since the day before had been a little bit of a disappointment weather wise.
However, once we got to the ocean it was so windy it was not pleasant to sit. So we walked up a little ways to the big park we had been to on Saturday. We found a nice spot to sit near a pavilion where there were people swing dancing to some nice jazz music. We laid in the sun for a good hour and a half and let our tired legs rest.
After the park we headed back up toward the food. On the way we saw La Pedrera, the apartment building Gaudi built that is all wavy, and we saw La Sagrada Familia again without all the people. Finally we made it to the restaurant. It was fabulous. The salad was so good and there was other food. Coffee was included in the price as well as ice cream and fruit. We ate to our hearts content and then a little, and I took some fruit to have for the next week.
After a good two hours in the restaurant we took another little walk and then we headed for our homes. I said goobye to Ashley. She is headed for Rome today and then will meet her boyfriend back in Spain and take a tour around Spain and head up to Paris. I will miss my touring buddy for the next few days, but there are still a few things that I hope to see on my last days here.
Hasta Luego,
Jenn